@kaia
agree, though I think ppl also make a lot of assumptions about other people based on pretty unreliable data like an avatar or a username
ex: all the anime girl avatars aren't backed by women, even if people might subconsciously respond as if to women
and I suspect some ppl imagine responses (eg answering a question when they wanted to complain) assuming the other person is responding based on info they know about themself, not what the other person actually believes them to be