kaia (kaia@brotka.st)'s status on Monday, 21-Aug-2023 17:34:35 JST
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@frankiesaxx
agreed. there's also a subconscious gender and hierarchical divide in giving and receiving advice.
if one has positive intent and formulates a response with care and still receives a negative reply, maybe it's not a person one wants to interact with in the first place.
I only have few people like this in my feed and I marked them red, so I don't accidentally reply something en passant. the rest that I exclusively had bad interactions with I blocked. and that's not a bad thing tbh, that's just like IRL relationships work.