"Well adjusted" women are manipulative psychopaths - even in their "friend" groups there's a constant struggle to manipulate the other women. Status in the friend group is fragile and backstabbing is common. Women are supportive because preying upon the women who are open with their secrets is a good way to acquire blackmail. This social dynamic applies to any power structure where women are allowed, and it applies to the degree in which women are in it.

In general, women who rise in power structures are awful people. Although men can - and usually do - rise to power through technical competence or good leadership, women rise to power through social manipulation, backstabbing, and sexual favors.

In general, women who fail at rising in these power structures are incapable of social manipulation and backstabbing. They are also unwilling to prostitute themselves to get to the top.

Unkempt shut-ins are a type of women who fail at rising in this sort of power structure. So, good men like them, even if they cannot fully explain why.