@playinprogress did you identify with schwarzenegger and mike tyson? or uh jimi hendrix and kevin mitnick, in my case?feel that "mess with the best, die like the rest" was not just ironic? (maybe you did, i don't think that actually matters for the point i want to make).
I'm out of my depth here, but the fact that so many boys are into tate and peterson sure sounds like a crisis to me.
Someone saying that they feel lost when trying to build an identity is valid.