@nyx I appreciate the perspective you offer. Is it basically 2nd wave? To a large extent, yes, but it's a perspective worth taking seriously. And you largely avoid the moralistic hectoring that 2nd wave radfems were prone to. It's more an honest statement of the situation as it exists between men and women, however those are defined. I think even those who aren't radical should take seriously, and men of good faith, if only to fundamentally grasp what is at issue. From there, more intelligent solutions can be proposed.
I do see an opportunity to ask and finally understand: what is meant when radicals spoke of "autistically repeating" or "autisme" and the like. I never could get a clear answer.