@mcmcgreevy @maladrin Wow! I had no idea @maladrin was on here! That sure takes me back all the way to my undergrad days (oh, Full Circle, you will be missed).
I think where I feel it the hardest is on times like this weekend, where we had a huge party and lots of pictures, and Amy can exchange pics with people on FB and Insta. It's reasonable for most of these folx to not want to get on the Fedi; it's Another Damn Thing when what they have works already.