@FemaleIsNotAFeeling Bait and switch - the MO of the whole genderist movement.
Whatever you do, they are going to find a way of twisting it to lose their shit with you. Because it’s a movement fuelled by narcissistic rage, and finding excuses to lose their shit is the whole point of the game.
It’s not that you did something he construed as wrong so he lost his shit. It’s that he hated you for being something he could never be, so he wanted to lose his shit, and whatever you said, he aribtrarily found some really spurious interpretation of it to do what he was going to do anyway.