@KFuentesGeorge
Back when on Twitter, somebody drew a distinction I like between “nice” and “kind.”
YOU: Oh, I’m so chilly!
KIND BUT NOT NICE: Whatcha complaining about? Here, take this sweater. You might as well keep the damned thing, I don’t care.
NICE BUT NOT KIND: Oh, I’m so sorry to hear that. That must be awful. [leaves as never speaks to you again]