@chairman_meh So when do we get to have dialogue? Complaining about racial shit independent of those conversations is no better optics-wise than "talking over POC" so when do 'we' get to talk with each other? (I say we despite being 0% colonizer-descended and white myself)
Nobody is above having shit takes, sorry. If I see a POC person be wrong or incoherent or counterproductive, I will respond to them the same way I will respond to a non-POC; I will ask questions then I will discuss or mock and hope I learn something.
"not all men" is often bad faith nonsense followed by reactionary opinions but if you start generalizing a group and dismissing any response of any kind as racism, good luck getting anyone who needs to hear what you have to say to listen to you.