@zo My first attempts with femme clothing were real disasters. But learning what your look is is a process, and even disappointment points toward desire. And there were in-between looks that I now think of as my "tomboy" wardrobe. Some of this is emotional; some is learning new skills. Honestly, it's been almost 4 years since I came out to myself and it's only in the last few months that I feel like I've started to see the road ahead clearly. 2/?