@PennyLope @GalacticTurtle Men still don't realise that women can actually leave. Up until very recently we really didn't have a choice--since we had little or no access to resources not via a man, we had to do our best with the resource-provider we ended up with. They really don't get that we now have agency (difficult as it still is, physically and financially, for so many women to sever a connection with a man).