@Cousin_Isobel @GalacticTurtle it'll be the enby men. the ones with the eyeliner and ugly haircuts.

I think misogyny within ethnic minorities is a horrible subject. the desire to not be racist has resulted in authorities here turning a blind eye to terrible things. same with child abuse. and the idea that a minority community will deal with their own leaves women hung out to dry. But the fact that the racism line runs right through the centre and individual cases criss-cross one side to the other, it's a bloody minefield.