@LJNielsenDk @zombierustpunk @ria Try coming out as "androgynous" in 2004 because there is no "non-binary" yet, getting no support and patching up the cracks in your egg so you can stay safe and loved, and getting so used to that egg that it takes years after the emergence and normalization of non-binary identities before you realize "Wait. That's exactly what I was trying for before. The fuck am I still doing in this egg?"