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   Kit Rhett Aultman (roadriverrail@signs.codes)'s status on Saturday, 15-Apr-2023 04:20:27 JST Kit Rhett Aultman

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   • Rianna Michelle :v_trans:
   • LJNielsenDk :v_enby: :v_pan:
   • Bonnie “Bee” K

   @LJNielsenDk @zombierustpunk @ria Try coming out as "androgynous" in 2004 because there is no "non-binary" yet, getting no support and patching up the cracks in your egg so you can stay safe and loved, and getting so used to that egg that it takes years after the emergence and normalization of non-binary identities before you realize "Wait. That's exactly what I was trying for before. The fuck am I still doing in this egg?"

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     LJNielsenDk :v_enby: :v_pan: (ljnielsendk@tech.lgbt)'s status on Saturday, 15-Apr-2023 04:20:30 JST LJNielsenDk :v_enby: :v_pan:

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     • Rianna Michelle :v_trans:
     • Bonnie “Bee” K

     @zombierustpunk @ria Not knowing about nonbinary people for something like 25 years.

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     Bonnie “Bee” K (zombierustpunk@hachyderm.io)'s status on Saturday, 15-Apr-2023 04:20:36 JST Bonnie “Bee” K

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     • Rianna Michelle :v_trans:

     @ria I mean, if someone had just said “you know, if you wish you were trans, you are trans”, they could’ve saved me a whole bunch of years.

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     Rianna Michelle :v_trans: (ria@tech.lgbt)'s status on Saturday, 15-Apr-2023 04:20:37 JST Rianna Michelle :v_trans:

     Me finding out HRT is a thing in 2015 at the age of 35: “oh this is really fucking cool, too bad I’m not #trans because this sounds fucking awesome.”

     I literally thought that.

     I was, like, Inception level deep in denial. ?