@Mrfunkedude I guess same- asking for a divorce with 4 kids, my job didn’t pay well but bigger than that I knew that I would lose my friends and possibly family because I was also leaving the church. When my family realized I was serious, they quit speaking to me for a long time and went to my ex if they wanted to see my kids. I still don’t have many friends as it’s difficult to meet new people but the ones I have are solid.