@sim You misunderstand.

Sometimes it's a sexual fetish, where a man literally wants a hole put into him as a penis receptacle.

Sometimes it's a way for a woman who's a lesbian to avoid harassment because saying she's a lesbian will have her end up sexually harassed by men who wish to have their lesbian fetish satisfied.

Sometimes it's a way for a man or woman to feel like they're happing on a trend.

Sometimes it's done for a career move.

Sometimes it's because someone was super into the idea of cutting up their genitals and already took a bunch of wrong sex hormones but they realized that they were motivated by a sexual fetish or self hatred and are trying to back track from the trans concept.

There's a whole lot going on here.

It's also a way to sell shitty surgeries by predatory doctors.

These surgeries could be a way to mark a sex trafficking victim to humiliate them.

https://www.dailysignal.com/2019/03/10/i-was-americas-first-non-binary-person-it-was-all-a-sham/

(warning this is a bunch of messed up pictures)
https://www.alignsurgical.com/gallery/gender-expansive-bottom-surgery/

You can't understand. When enough people understand a new identity title will be promoted to justify insane medical experimentation (except it's not actually an experiment because there's no control groups) and more word games to shut out the nonbelievers.

Don't try to understand. Instead see how Erza Miller basically groomed and trafficked a 13 year old girl once she was 18 and used the concept of "nonbinary" to push people around to the point of ridiculousness.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_C1vzMDgkHU

Whether it's simply creating confusing words or destroying healthy, functional body parts, the destruction of meaning behind words can be a whole lot of creepy and dangerous than a simple wish of someone to find inner peace by asking for everyone to "respect it even if they can't understand it."