I don't even know if it hierarchy. It's more like jurisdiction. There are matter I leave completely to my wife's discretion. I only get involved if queried.

Most domestic matters would fall here. What to buy from the grocery store, when to buy it, how to decorate the house, how to landscape the yard (fucking Mexicans 😒).

Anything that touches beyond the house in a material way, like dealing with people, is my domain.