@artemis @lxo I don't tolerate lies. I think the hard truth is always better than sweet lies. so I never told people lies. even if that could piss them off. I think truth is important and makes the world a better place. people are stuck in lies, lost their last common sense and pretend being blind and deaf to please somebody else. I think this is absolutely wrong way. a turn to nowhere. so we must return back the truth and clarity to this world. even if the cure would be a little bitter than people wanted.
if you see a boil you cut it with a scalpel. if you see lies you cut it with clarifying things up. this is necessary procedure to solve the problem.

and considering mental health, people should learn to accept critics and consider it. not faint and panic at any attempt to tell them the real state of things. living in real world and staying sober and critical is an important skill. absolutely necessary if we ever want to build a healthy society where lies is not the topmost skill to survive. so I stay on my position of telling the direct harsh truth wherever and whenever. because this is the only way to make this world a better place. things must be called their names.

btw, I didn't tell about "beauty standards". I don't consider beauty per se. I tell trivial things about health. basic things everybody should know since childhood, I think. and beauty is just one of byproducts of health. so they are somehow joined. health means beauty, this is a law of the nature.