@matty @alex the issue is backed up notifications on our end, again. clearing notifications that were seen immediately rectified the issue
pleroma=# delete from notifications where seen = 't' and inserted_at < CURRENT_TIMESTAMP-'2 months'::interval; DELETE 3161876(sorry people who saw their notifications 2 months ago but 3.1 million delivered notifications is a lot)
@chudbere jims account is also working fine now