@colinburgess yeah, so some differences in things like ‘not wanting to stand in line for mom’s fave food’ or ‘not wanting to fuss over food’ is perceived to being a careless, unfilial, insensitive person who doesn’t care about the important things in life (feeding our families the best things)
I always say I find it funny when I see some other cultures really denigrate people who are picky eaters, because in my food culture we are very suspicious about people who don’t have strong opinions about food