I'm asking for a server/community of weirdos who maybe say shitty things to each other but strictly enforce a no harassing users on other servers policy. maybe it exists. I'm unaware of any even defined-as-conservative server that does that.
I desperately want that. I want proof it can exist to be able to better make the case to mainstream fedi that my "we don't need to defederate for stuff you don't like cause you won't see it" is possible. I want more views here.