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You're missing something fundamental.
A man could end up raising another man's children. It happens all the time when the wife cheats, and the man may never know.
A woman rarely if ever would have to raise another woman's child, because (1) it can't be secreted, and (2) the child usually goes with the mother.
Thus, a man-whore and a woman-whore are not the same when it comes to coupling.
And this is why a man can have different expectations, and your equivalency is not only false, but absolute boomer tier, zio-cuck bullshit.
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I will just remind you: if you expect a woman to be a pure virgin, then it is only fair for a woman to expect a man to have no contact with pornography—if ever.
>It’s a false equivalence.
Let’s be entirely fair: the only reason you are a virgin is because you have never had the opportunity. If you were to have the opportunity, you would be a manwhore. Truly, you are physically a virgin, but spiritually a manwhore.
If you counted each time you masturbated as a body, then your soul is just fucked. You are the biggest whore there is.
>Are you talking about me?
No, I am not. It’s just general frustration with an observation I have been having, especially towards fellow Christians.
Matthew 7
3 “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? 4 How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? 5 You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.”
>So do I have to date someone with a large body count, then?
No, you don’t, but don’t expect a pure maiden to want to date an ex-porn addict. At the end of the day, marriage means accepting concessions. Of course, it’s one thing if she’s still actively doing it, but it’s another if she stopped.
And this is where I am bringing my point: many of you are still porn addicts. There’s a difference between someone who is actively aware that their porn addiction is a problem, and those who pretend it’s not that big of a deal or, even worse, embrace it.
I expect you, as a Christian, to at least acknowledge that it is a problem.
We all here had a pornography problem. For many of us, we did not have anything to stop us, but nevertheless, it happened. It had negative effects on your soul and your brain.
Don’t expect a virgin maiden. Yes, sure, we would all like that, but let’s be entirely fair: we’re not pure. Yeah, most of us are virgins, but we are definitely not “chaste.” It’s a lot of nonsense. Get real.
I am tired of Tradlarpers, i am tired of people using their christian Faith to just justify themselves and their worldview without actually challenging their own, and i am tired especially of hypocrites.
you are the Hypocrites and the fools written about in Scripture, you are the false teachers, repent, all i ask of you is to acknowledge your own Sin and know your place.
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@themilkman >Video games always have you fighting against bad people as the good guys
Often, but not always. If I play Counter Strike I might play as the bad guys (The IDF). Or if I play a fantasy game like Heroes of Might and Magic, I might be playing as necromancers or demons.
>it takes extremely minimal arousal to start tempting you
Where are you getting this from? If it took extremely minimal arousal to tempt me I would not be able to function when browsing fedi.
>masturbation is a sin in itself.
No it is not. As you said yourself, there is no biblical support for that claim.
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Will someone please throw TheMilkMan in the woodchipper. His redditor logic is all retarded. I can't even.
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@Jens_Rasmussen well what a retarded argument this is:
first of all we are not talking fiction vs reality, it's fantasy, seperate from fiction (if you bring up the semantics of "fantasy is also a genre of fiction actually", which i know has crossed your mind, please, either take arguing this seriously, or leave)
when you are playing doom, the sole fantasy is not "i want to stomp heads on a curb" the fantasy also relies on the context of being righteous, that your enemies are evil and cunning and that your fight ultimately is something good and righteous.
sexual fantasy justifies itself, the point is the sexual gratification.
>but there is love too!
yes there is love in it as well, then why don't you read romance novels which have that physically sexual aspect diminished? well, because that physically sexual aspect is completely necessary to the fantasy, not only is it necessary to the fantasy, it is also the idea that sex justifies the fantasy immedietly with it being love, if the woman enjoys it then it's love after all right?
my main point is that violence is justified through the context of heroes vs villains, but in the cases of games, the player can also have a level of disconnect from the main character or the character doing something evil for plot reasons.
Sex justifies itself automatically, that's the problem here.
but i just gave you the long answer, let me just re-iterate my point again then, if you are addicted to pornography so much, that it takes extremely minimal arousal to start tempting you, then can you seriously tell me with a straight face that you will somehow manifest the self-contral when you are being actively tempted? no you are lying to yourself straight up.
and the best part is, we are not even discussing the elephant in the room that masturbation is a sin in itself.
>but the bible doesn't explicitly mention it
this is how jews think.
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@Jens_Rasmussen "i vapidly jerk off everyday but i would never ever ever have vapid sex if the opportunity were to present it"
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@themilkman I am indeed able to tell the difference between fiction and reality, and act accordingly.
I also kill enemies in video games every day.
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@themilkman >If you were to have the opportunity, you would be a manwhore
Big and untrue assumption. Go fuck yourself, nigger.
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True ‼️
Physically and mentally it is slightly different but spiritually it is almost (if not completely) the same
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