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   Miakoda (hellomiakoda@pdx.social)'s status on Sunday, 28-Sep-2025 12:27:36 JST Miakoda

   I wonder if #ActuallyAutistic people have different results on polygraph lie detection 🤔️

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     Miakoda (hellomiakoda@pdx.social)'s status on Sunday, 28-Sep-2025 15:05:19 JST Miakoda

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     • Goiterzan/Amygdalai Lama

     @GreenRoc @punishmenthurts I know a couple people who are infinitely stoned

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     Green Roc Thoughts (greenroc@mastodon.social)'s status on Sunday, 28-Sep-2025 15:05:20 JST Green Roc Thoughts

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     @punishmenthurts @hellomiakoda YES! yes I recall that too now... if they are taking time to think, that most likely means they are lying.

     I want the narrator to say a non-absolute, because some of us need time to think, because our recall is not instant.

     My dad and his demand for immediate answers really messed up how I communicate.

     I depend on habitual speech swaths of word menageries, without forethought of how to put the words together, because father usually never waited for me to think.

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     Green Roc Thoughts (greenroc@mastodon.social)'s status on Sunday, 28-Sep-2025 15:05:20 JST Green Roc Thoughts

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     @punishmenthurts @hellomiakoda I developed a horrible habit of not proofreading my posts, and NEVEr considering how people will react before I speak.

     I dont have time to consider the thousands of reactions... I aint Doctor Strange with an infinity stone.

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     Goiterzan/Amygdalai Lama (punishmenthurts@autistics.life)'s status on Sunday, 28-Sep-2025 15:05:21 JST Goiterzan/Amygdalai Lama

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     @GreenRoc @hellomiakoda
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     He went on to say other signs of lying are pausing to think before answering, and "manually," choosing your words, as well as using qualifiers like, "Well, I could be wrong, but" 🤮 😈 💜

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     Green Roc Thoughts (greenroc@mastodon.social)'s status on Sunday, 28-Sep-2025 15:05:22 JST Green Roc Thoughts

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     @hellomiakoda Different than typicals probably, but I dont truly know myself, but I also wonder.

     I have watched a video where a narrator describes someone's body movements, that seem to describe my own everyday usually autistic behaviors, but then says, "this kind of behavior is the tell tale signs of a liar, or someone up to no good"

     What the hell narrator.

     then suddenly I felt, well that answers a lot of crap I never understood about other peoples' reactions to me.

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     Green Roc Thoughts (greenroc@mastodon.social)'s status on Sunday, 28-Sep-2025 15:05:22 JST Green Roc Thoughts

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     @hellomiakoda I forgot to include that the saying is my paraphrasing of the sentence to the best of my recollection.

     I do not recall word for word.

     But I make my best recollection. I recall some of the descriptions of the behaviors... "fidgeting, wiggling her legs, tense and not able to hold still, and difficulty making eye contact" And then soon the narrator says something like... this means she is hiding something.

     erm... I'd argue with the narrator if I could.

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     Green Roc Thoughts (greenroc@mastodon.social)'s status on Sunday, 28-Sep-2025 15:11:03 JST Green Roc Thoughts

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     @punishmenthurts @hellomiakoda My mom once slapped me when I was a preteen, and I cried in pain, as she yelled "DONT Lie TO ME!" Im not! then why did you smile? I DoNT KNOW.

     WHAT THE HELL FACE... A SMILE? WHEN I AM SCARED AS FUCK BECAUSE MY BROTHeR LIED TO MY MOM to GET ME IN TROUBLE for WHAT HE DID TO BULLY MY SENSES!!!!

     He put stereo on mute, turned the volume to max, and as he walked out the door, pressed unmute and left.

     He lied to mom, who left volume to max before mom interrogated me

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     Miakoda (hellomiakoda@pdx.social)'s status on Sunday, 28-Sep-2025 15:11:03 JST Miakoda

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     • Goiterzan/Amygdalai Lama

     @GreenRoc @punishmenthurts I get accuses of lying often, to this day. My roommate thinks all I do is lie. 🤷♀️️

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     Green Roc Thoughts (greenroc@mastodon.social)'s status on Sunday, 28-Sep-2025 15:11:04 JST Green Roc Thoughts

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     @punishmenthurts @hellomiakoda I edit my messed up habitual phrasing...

     I, personally, DO have time, to stop, think, consider rammifications, and then make my thoughts into tangible words...

     But, my survival has often depeneded on my expidient answers, and I aint got tallent to switch communication syles at the drop of a hat, just because a new human entered the room.

     I gotta be whatever I am, and have to eat dirt of the recipient took the worst possible interpretation... Sometimes they do.

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     Goiterzan/Amygdalai Lama (punishmenthurts@autistics.life)'s status on Sunday, 28-Sep-2025 15:11:04 JST Goiterzan/Amygdalai Lama

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     @GreenRoc @hellomiakoda
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     Geezuz, I was making a joke, I haven't seen it. Eish! 😬
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     This is my life too, and I hate it so much. If you say the sky is blue, but say it while committing these sins, you are, "lying," by these idiots.
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     Like this is the only way they know if you're lying. They don't know if the sky is blue themselves, if you make a face. 😈

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     Miakoda (hellomiakoda@pdx.social)'s status on Sunday, 28-Sep-2025 15:12:50 JST Miakoda

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     @punishmenthurts @GreenRoc "I could be wrong" and varients there of are what I say often cause I dont consider myself an expert and thus I could be wrong