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   ???? (praxisofevil@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 12-Aug-2022 22:31:18 JST ????
   "Why don't guys ask us out anymore?!?!?!"
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     Agartha_Noble (agartha_noble@shortstackran.ch)'s status on Friday, 12-Aug-2022 22:31:09 JST Agartha_Noble

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     @JSDorn @PraxisOfEvil @deprecated_ii Statistically, 70% of men in a generation don't reproduce. "Your ancestors all reproduced" is a tautology.
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     JSDorn ?? (jsdorn@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 12-Aug-2022 22:31:10 JST JSDorn ??

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     @PraxisOfEvil @deprecated_ii I don't know your circumstances but I think you will regret not having kids and marrying when you are older.
     
     Every single one of your ancestors reproduced, and sacrificed, to give something to their posterity.
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     ???? (praxisofevil@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 12-Aug-2022 22:31:14 JST ????

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     @deprecated_ii Yeah I haven't been on a date in years, maybe I'm just too autistic but going through the effort to sustain a relationship at this point just feels like masochism and it seems a larger portion of the population agrees. I don't know what women want, maybe I never did, but soon I feel I'll have more important things to worry about.
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     d (deprecated_ii@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 12-Aug-2022 22:31:15 JST d

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     @PraxisOfEvil I don't think it's a permanent thing, but guys born in a ~20 year window have gotten saturation bombed by infinite societal ills
     
     It's amazing society can be this fucked up and unhealthy and not collapse outright
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     ???? (praxisofevil@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 12-Aug-2022 22:31:16 JST ????

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     @deprecated_ii
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     ???? (praxisofevil@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 12-Aug-2022 22:31:17 JST ????

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     It seems to me that inceldom used to be considered a somewhat rare malady and guys would desperately try to avoid the label, but the more guys I talk to (esp online) the more the prospect of not fucking doesn't seem to bother them anymore, they're just blithely accepted their dry dicks and any attempt to get them to talk to girls fails horrendously
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     d (deprecated_ii@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 12-Aug-2022 22:31:17 JST d

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     @PraxisOfEvil I started dating in about 1998. I dated lots of girls, and had several long term (multi-year) relationships. They didn't result in marriage because where I was, both physically and socially, getting married young was discouraged
     
     Things changed in the dating scene with smartphones and then really fell off a cliff around 2012-2014. I haven't known a single girl I would consider dating, let alone courting for marriage, since 2015
     
     So if you ask why I'm not getting my dick wet, it's like asking a guy in a desert why he's not eating more fresh fruit. It's not like there's plenty to go around and he's just not bothering to pick it up. It just isn't available
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     d (deprecated_ii@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 12-Aug-2022 22:35:06 JST d

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     @Ivan_Ivanovich @JSDorn @Tactical @PraxisOfEvil I want a family but I honestly don't see a clear path from here to there
     
     It's more like, hope I luck into it because literally every social mechanism designed to encourage family formation was destroyed by the time I went to college
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     JSDorn ?? (jsdorn@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 12-Aug-2022 22:35:09 JST JSDorn ??

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     @Tactical @PraxisOfEvil @deprecated_ii I don't either honestly.
     
     I can't imagine not wanting a family.
     
     It's the best thing ever.
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     Ivan Ivanovich Ivanov (ivan_ivanovich@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 12-Aug-2022 22:35:09 JST Ivan Ivanovich Ivanov

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     @JSDorn @Tactical @PraxisOfEvil @deprecated_ii It would be nice having children with a good woman but it's not really something that I daydream about tbh, especially since I see little chance of it happening and I sure as hell wouldn't want it now
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     Tactical :njp: ?? ?? ? (tactical@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 12-Aug-2022 22:35:10 JST Tactical :njp: ?? ?? ?

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     @JSDorn @PraxisOfEvil @deprecated_ii i don't get accepting being single
     
     i want a family so sweet, that southern sweet tea would be envious