@PraxisOfEvil I started dating in about 1998. I dated lots of girls, and had several long term (multi-year) relationships. They didn't result in marriage because where I was, both physically and socially, getting married young was discouraged

Things changed in the dating scene with smartphones and then really fell off a cliff around 2012-2014. I haven't known a single girl I would consider dating, let alone courting for marriage, since 2015

So if you ask why I'm not getting my dick wet, it's like asking a guy in a desert why he's not eating more fresh fruit. It's not like there's plenty to go around and he's just not bothering to pick it up. It just isn't available