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   snacks (snacks@netzsphaere.xyz)'s status on Friday, 16-May-2025 22:06:31 JST snacks
   Why's everyone misgendering maija now?
   
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     snacks (snacks@netzsphaere.xyz)'s status on Friday, 16-May-2025 22:08:41 JST snacks

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     Why did it attach the video again wtf
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     kaia (kaia@brotka.st)'s status on Friday, 16-May-2025 22:09:29 JST kaia

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     @snacks her story is so sad :cry_cirno: :cry_cirno: :cry_cirno:
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     Phantasm (phnt@fluffytail.org)'s status on Friday, 16-May-2025 22:10:33 JST Phantasm

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     @snacks I have zero respect for people like maija, that's why. Also last time we talked in a similar thread like yesterday, there were some claims of detransitioning in Latvia, so I don't know anymore, neither do I care to know.
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     snacks (snacks@netzsphaere.xyz)'s status on Friday, 16-May-2025 22:19:32 JST snacks

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     @kim the people i saw doing it usually respect trannies tho
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     poggie ?️‍⚧️ (kim@linfan.moe)'s status on Friday, 16-May-2025 22:19:33 JST poggie ?️‍⚧️

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     > when ppl on fedi dont respect trannies
     :pikao:
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     snacks (snacks@netzsphaere.xyz)'s status on Friday, 16-May-2025 22:21:17 JST snacks

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     • Phantasm
     @phnt makes sense. She couldn't get estradiol subscription in latvia that's why
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     :blobcatflower: (methyltheobromine@netzsphaere.xyz)'s status on Friday, 16-May-2025 22:24:42 JST :blobcatflower:

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     • poggie ?️‍⚧️
     @snacks @kim nobody does it's all superficial and performative
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     pwm (pwm@darkdork.dev)'s status on Friday, 16-May-2025 22:28:12 JST pwm

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     @snacks Won't someone think of the poor pedophile zoophile trannies?
     On top of being gross, maija has a compulsion to push boundaries and break rules (not uncommon in the umbrella category of those with taboo philias). You retards should know better than to let them play with your toys.
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     Johnny Peligro (mischievoustomato@tsundere.love)'s status on Friday, 16-May-2025 23:03:46 JST Johnny Peligro

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     • poggie ?️‍⚧️
     @snacks @kim who has been doing that to maija?
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     Johnny Peligro (mischievoustomato@tsundere.love)'s status on Friday, 16-May-2025 23:04:29 JST Johnny Peligro

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     @phnt @snacks im neutral towards her but i still wouldn't do that since i have friends that are trans and well, it also feels hypocritical to such a thing even if I didn't
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     snacks (snacks@netzsphaere.xyz)'s status on Friday, 16-May-2025 23:40:34 JST snacks

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     • Johnny Peligro
     @mischievoustomato @kim phnt and nyanide but apparently they're just confused because of her not getting e in latvia
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     Johnny Peligro (mischievoustomato@tsundere.love)'s status on Friday, 16-May-2025 23:41:22 JST Johnny Peligro

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     • poggie ?️‍⚧️
     @snacks @kim well, isn't a big thing that you can be trans if you just feel like it eevn if you dont get estrogen? BRuh.sh
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     Phantasm (phnt@fluffytail.org)'s status on Saturday, 17-May-2025 00:38:25 JST Phantasm

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     @mischievoustomato @snacks
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     Phantasm (phnt@fluffytail.org)'s status on Saturday, 17-May-2025 01:10:02 JST Phantasm

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     • Johnny Peligro
     @snacks @kim @mischievoustomato Getting hrt wouldn't change anything tbh, but at least I would know that I'm misgendering. I've talked to maija for months on almost daily basis before the first big loli thread since I've joined on here which didn't make me cut contact almost completely. I actually tried to be somewhat "hey, you shouldn't support this, stop it" in that first thread iirc. You can look it up if you want. It's definitely in your DB since lucy followed me back then. And the reason why I was like that is because maija at that time was someone I somewhat cared about on the Internet, which is somewhat rare for me, mostly because of his mental state. I still remember our first interaction was while I was in a waiting room for my bi-annual checkup and maija was posting about self harm.
     
     Couple months after the previous loli thread, he joined another one and that was the final breaking point for me and I've cut contact almost completely since then. At that time 7666 I think kicked maija out of comp.lain.la, but that might have been after the "first" thread. I don't remember it that clearly. And also since then maija has been a constant nuisance and annoyance for me due to his unpredictable image posting nature and also the fact that lolicon is technically illegal in Czechia after a single court ruling in 2024. His existence on here unchemoed (without media stripping) was an actual, but arguably slight, threat to me hosting this instance and getting partyvanned because of his questionable image posting habits and me operating a media proxy on fluffytail.org while also interacting with people that are known to provoke trigger-happy drive-by reporters (read: lgbt side of Mastodon)[1]. After the second loli thread is also the point where maija lost all my "respect" and stopped caring about him or his mental state. I tried to calm him when he had his panic/self-harm attacks, got burned once with the first loli thread, and after the second thread I didn't care at all anymore. I genuinely wish he would go away for good, but I also know that won't be the case even this time.
     
     Only those that do not annoy me all the time deserve correct pronouns. Just like only people that you respect and are close to you are supposed to be called by their first names. Hence the trade offer meme above. I call others on here by their correct pronouns by default. The "don't annoy me" rule is basically the only rule I have with regards to talking to people anyway. I talk to almost anyone, if they don't annoy me.
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     snacks (snacks@netzsphaere.xyz)'s status on Saturday, 17-May-2025 01:13:16 JST snacks

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     @phnt @kim @mischievoustomato just seems petty to start misgendering someone the moment they're gone. Also she at least managed to not post loli on here in the half year she had the account
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     Phantasm (phnt@fluffytail.org)'s status on Saturday, 17-May-2025 01:13:58 JST Phantasm

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     @snacks @kim @mischievoustomato
     [1] FYI got questioned by feds once thanks to the continuous involvement in pedo circles. That was years ago.
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     snacks (snacks@netzsphaere.xyz)'s status on Saturday, 17-May-2025 01:14:57 JST snacks

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     • Johnny Peligro
     @phnt @kim @mischievoustomato like, she was actually doing decently, i had some hope. But needing to warn her multiple times in a week for stuff that could get me into legal trouble all of a sudden obv makes me not wanna host her either anymore
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     Phantasm (phnt@fluffytail.org)'s status on Saturday, 17-May-2025 01:17:54 JST Phantasm

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     @snacks @kim @mischievoustomato I've told maija months ago to not post lolicon or defend nonces on your instance since there were already some signs and you host the instance a) at home; b) in Germany; c) proxy on Hetzner. That got me called knock-off mint or whatever. There's literally no hope. When sjw made him an invite on bae.st after getting booted from another instance, one of the first posts was about being free to post lolis.
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     Johnny Peligro (mischievoustomato@tsundere.love)'s status on Saturday, 17-May-2025 01:21:36 JST Johnny Peligro

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     @snacks @phnt @kim she's a known liability
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     Phantasm (phnt@fluffytail.org)'s status on Saturday, 17-May-2025 01:22:44 JST Phantasm

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     @snacks @kim @mischievoustomato
     >just seems petty to start misgendering someone the moment they're gone.
     I've apparently been doing that for months anyway. And in my eyes, it's deserved when almost every interaction I've had with maija after mostly cutting contact was arguing about how lolicon is actually legal in US. I'm sick and tired of his arguments and everyone like him. It makes my blood boil every time, which is also the reason why I went kinda hard on Arcana yesterday. I was genuinely angry that this shit popped up on my TL again, although it was kinda my fault by mentioning loli.church in the fediblock.
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     fighter! (f0x@fsebugoutzone.org)'s status on Saturday, 17-May-2025 01:26:55 JST fighter!

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     @phnt @snacks @kim @mischievoustomato i think the point is that when anyone becomes a pedophile they die. they are not human, and don't have human emotions, so they cannot argue about feelings; they don't have any.
     
     it is okay to dehumanize childfucking zoophiles. they chose to be dead. they cannot revive themselves. they cannot claim they feel anything.
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     Johnny Peligro (mischievoustomato@tsundere.love)'s status on Saturday, 17-May-2025 02:06:17 JST Johnny Peligro

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     @dagda @phnt @snacks ? i'm just trying to be nice
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     EmoDagda (dagda@netzsphaere.xyz)'s status on Saturday, 17-May-2025 02:06:18 JST EmoDagda

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     @mischievoustomato @phnt @snacks my brother in christ you are a chaser
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      (mint@ryona.agency)'s status on Saturday, 17-May-2025 02:17:48 JST 

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     @phnt @kim @snacks @mischievoustomato I've literally done nothing wrong by noticing things.
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     Johnny Peligro (mischievoustomato@tsundere.love)'s status on Saturday, 17-May-2025 02:25:50 JST Johnny Peligro

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     @mint @phnt @kim @snacks it's honestly a shame to see this happen but it is what it is
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      (mint@ryona.agency)'s status on Saturday, 17-May-2025 02:26:55 JST 

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     @manstop @menherahair @snacks PULL UP, TERRAIN AHEAD
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     manstop (manstop@ryona.agency)'s status on Saturday, 17-May-2025 02:26:56 JST manstop

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     @menherahair @snacks reminded me how i played css on some server and some time later a couple of poles joined and started spamming "oddavaj smolensk" in chat
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     menherahair (menherahair@eientei.org)'s status on Saturday, 17-May-2025 02:26:57 JST menherahair

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     @snacks I have zero respect for Lithuania ODDAJCIE LWÓW
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     Phantasm (phnt@fluffytail.org)'s status on Saturday, 17-May-2025 02:28:59 JST Phantasm

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     @mint @menherahair @snacks @manstop RETARD, RETARD
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