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   BeAware :fediverse: (beaware@mementomori.social)'s status on Thursday, 03-Apr-2025 01:43:18 JST BeAware :fediverse:

   Has anyone ever reached out to someone to do a mental health check and got accused of flirting?😳

   Yeah...that's how my night went last night.

   I thought MY mental health was bad...until I said "Are you alright?" and that got misconstrued as "flirting" somehow.😬

   MAJOR yikes!

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     BeAware :fediverse: (beaware@mementomori.social)'s status on Thursday, 03-Apr-2025 01:56:51 JST BeAware :fediverse:

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     • Patrick

     @ppb1701 honestly, it was an eye opening experience for me. It made me have an extremely good night and night's sleep.

     She had sent my DMs which literally just said "hey, are you alright?" And her reply saying "yeah I'm just going through some stuff" to like 5 different dudes to harass me and thought every post I made on Threads was about her.

     When in reality, I was literally copy and pasting from another popular post to mooch engagement.😂

     The whole experience made me feel infinitely more normal and less like an insane person because that is truly insane. I am not so bad after all.😳

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     Patrick (ppb1701@ppb.social)'s status on Thursday, 03-Apr-2025 01:56:53 JST Patrick

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     @BeAware yikes indeed 🤯

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     BeAware :fediverse: (beaware@mementomori.social)'s status on Thursday, 03-Apr-2025 01:59:49 JST BeAware :fediverse:

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     • Scarlet Phoenix Collective

     @the_spc that's what I said.

     She sent our DMs, which was literally just that with her replying "just going through some stuff" and my reply back "alright, just let me know if you need anything" to like 5 different dudes to harass me.

     It was an eye opening experience because I thought MY mental health was bad. I thought I was insane.

     No, that is truly insane. I am normal by comparison and that made me feel good. I've been having a good night and day since that happened.

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     Scarlet Phoenix Collective (the_spc@fwoof.space)'s status on Thursday, 03-Apr-2025 01:59:50 JST Scarlet Phoenix Collective

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     @BeAware No.

     How the hell is asking "are you all right?" considered flirting? In whhat fucking context? WTH Someone needs to rethink their definitions or some such.

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     BeAware :fediverse: (beaware@mementomori.social)'s status on Thursday, 03-Apr-2025 03:50:47 JST BeAware :fediverse:

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     • Sibshops

     @Sibshops well...it made me never want to talk to her again so....mission failed, if that's the case.😂

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     Sibshops (sibshops@mastodon.online)'s status on Thursday, 03-Apr-2025 03:50:48 JST Sibshops

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     @BeAware Plot twist. This is her idea of flirting.

     Maybe her accusation is an admission.