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   Jess👾 (jesstheunstill@infosec.exchange)'s status on Saturday, 11-Jan-2025 15:30:43 JST Jess👾

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   @alice There might also be some of the whole thing where guys are nervous to come across as flirting. Which I guess I sorta understand. I was nervous complementing a woman's appearance for a long time too. But also, my rule of thumb has always been that it's okay to give a complement to something someone has done with their appearance - hair or clothes or makeup or shoes etc. Unless it's someone you're intimate with or otherwise very close, don't talk about parts of their body.

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     Rich Felker (dalias@hachyderm.io)'s status on Saturday, 11-Jan-2025 15:35:13 JST Rich Felker

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     @JessTheUnstill @alice I think there's also a difference between whether you frame it like "I wish I could do like that" vs "I wish I had a partner like that".