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   Miakoda (hellomiakoda@pdx.social)'s status on Monday, 23-Dec-2024 23:53:40 JST Miakoda

   Moving the button like that is the most reliable way to ensure I will not do whatever your button is asking me to do! 🖕
   It is now very high priority that I absolutely NOT "Join your Telegram Channel".

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     Green Roc Thoughts (greenroc@mastodon.social)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Dec-2024 00:04:42 JST Green Roc Thoughts

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     @hellomiakoda It hurts to see on my feed! Agh not the wiggle no wiggle...

     Such things should be banned!
     (I am so glad I am not experiencing the real thing)

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     Miakoda (hellomiakoda@pdx.social)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Dec-2024 00:04:42 JST Miakoda

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     • Green Roc Thoughts

     @GreenRoc
     The wiggly button reminds me of Stuart. 🤣
     https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oMwmJd66rXM

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     Miakoda (hellomiakoda@pdx.social)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Dec-2024 00:52:35 JST Miakoda

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     • Micah

     @m
     I think it is PDA related

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     Micah (m@autistics.life)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Dec-2024 00:52:36 JST Micah

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     @hellomiakoda
     Yup. Give me a choice, and I'll consider it. Attempt to force me, trick me, or manipulate me into something and I will do everything in my power to ensure that NEVER happens.

     Is this related to PDA? I dunno.

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     Miakoda (hellomiakoda@pdx.social)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Dec-2024 01:28:22 JST Miakoda

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     • Dave the Nomad 🇨🇦 :autism:
     • Micah

     @dave
     @m

     Yep! I beg my friends to never tell me to go take some time to enjoy my special interests. 🤣

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     Dave the Nomad 🇨🇦 :autism: (dave@autisticnomad.social)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Dec-2024 01:28:23 JST Dave the Nomad 🇨🇦 :autism:

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     • Micah

     @m

     Totally unrelated to the context of this thread, but related to PDA and something on my mind lately:

     How PDA manifests for me is that almost every time someone is like "hey we should do X" my brain immediately cringes and there's this physical "ugh, nope" feeling that goes through my body.

     Even if it's something I normally like doing!

     @hellomiakoda

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     Micah (m@autistics.life)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Dec-2024 01:28:24 JST Micah

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     @hellomiakoda
     Probably...

     PDA is... weird. I know that my refusal to act on things like this isn't going to change the behavior of those who are creating these sites... but, it is the principle of the thing.

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     Miakoda (hellomiakoda@pdx.social)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Dec-2024 01:40:49 JST Miakoda

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     • Green Roc Thoughts
     • Dave the Nomad 🇨🇦 :autism:
     • Micah

     @m
     @GreenRoc @dave

     Sometimes, only sometimes, I can reverse uno card that shit by framing it as the PDA itself telling me what to not do!
     🤣

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     Micah (m@autistics.life)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Dec-2024 01:40:50 JST Micah

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     • Dave the Nomad 🇨🇦 :autism:

     @GreenRoc @dave @hellomiakoda
     It isn't that intense for me luckily, but it is for my wife and in some cases it is for me as well.

     It is really frustrating when you actually want to do something but that "nope" feeling has hit.

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     Green Roc Thoughts (greenroc@mastodon.social)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Dec-2024 01:40:51 JST Green Roc Thoughts

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     • Micah

     @dave @m @hellomiakoda

     by golly I may have PDA by the description of your pda manefestation Dave, which sounds almost identical to what I call my "nope" feeling.