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@mia @fial @sun 'force' in a sense that we want to interact with people without having to pretend to be someone else first
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@icedquinn @fial @mia there is having a moral code and there's zealotry and bigotry, where you won't learn what others think and you require your interactions to be on your terms. I am not nearly saying this is all autistic people I am saying this is a common social interaction fail state for people with a lot of autism. neurodivergence acceptance is a pipe dream, it is inherently hard to get along with people that think wildly differently.
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@sun @fial @mia i literally mean the paper itself concludes that NTs care more about being bribed or passing a compliance test than they do their convictions, where ASDs reject social pressure in violation of their convictions, and the authors proceed to write this as though its a defect. that's literally what the papers about, and that's solely what "normies do not have a moral compass" is in reference to.
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@sun @fial @mia the OP was primarily about me being depressed that i have no friends (and calculate the lack of meaningfulness in friendship in cybernetic terms) but i guess i clowned myself, rip
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@icedquinn @fial @mia I am sorry, I am bad about jumping into threads and nitpicking specifics while derailing the thread from its original point.
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@sun @fial @mia its fine i fucked it up myself this time.
(my threads always get fucked anyway but this time i did it to myself :ablobcatblink: 🔫)
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@icedquinn @fial @mia I'll read the paper because I am interested but my initial thought is just that some social interactions where the calculus places the personal connection higher than adherence to rules will look like this. just an initial though I'll read the paper. not to argue with you just so I understand your point better.