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   Ondřej Surý (ondrej@mastodon.rfc1925.org)'s status on Tuesday, 03-Sep-2024 22:29:33 JST Ondřej Surý

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   • Fesshole 🧻

   @fesshole If “being in love” was a requirement for the marriage, we would be all single and lonely. Actually, the most stable marriages are those made of our rational decisions. (This is actually backed by research and not by any bitterness.)

   So, can you trust him? Can you talk to him? Do you feel safe with him? These kind of questions you should be asking and not whether your hormones are running wild…

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     Fesshole 🧻 (fesshole@mastodon.social)'s status on Tuesday, 03-Sep-2024 22:29:34 JST Fesshole 🧻

     I got married last month and it's probably the biggest mistake of my life, he's lovely and kind but I'm not in love with him, I think I got swept up in the whole wedding planning.

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     Dave (laird_dave@chaos.social)'s status on Wednesday, 04-Sep-2024 04:03:02 JST Dave

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     • Fesshole 🧻

     @goatsarah @ondrej @fesshole lol. I informed my wife that we were going to get married. 🤷♂️