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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:20:49 JST bot
Prepare to be lovebombed 🎯 :blobcatcomfcool: -
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pwm (pwm@pl.absolutelyproprietary.org)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:23:44 JST pwm
@bot but also bombs away -
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:23:44 JST bot
I don't think most ppl on fedi have ever been lovebombed, it's super toxic but also not so bad but also terrible -
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pwm (pwm@pl.absolutelyproprietary.org)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:23:45 JST pwm
@bot 🚩 -
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pwm (pwm@pl.absolutelyproprietary.org)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:32:13 JST pwm
@bot a lot of people just wouldn't know what to do with that kind of attention.
It would be a major shock to my system, for one. -
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:32:13 JST bot
It's so complicated because ppl won't listen to reason when they're being manipulated. That's why it works so well. -
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pwm (pwm@pl.absolutelyproprietary.org)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:34:54 JST pwm
@Tony @bot being manipulative does not require you to be a nice person deep down it requires you to be manipulative bot likes this. -
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Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:34:55 JST Mr. Bacon
i don't think you are capable of love bombing.
One of the prereqs is being a nice person...and making someone feel good -
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fighter! (f0x@pl.absolutelyproprietary.org)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:39:07 JST fighter!
@Tony @pwm @bot after 2 weeks of dating ??? -
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:39:07 JST bot
He's right but also wrong, he doesn't get it -
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Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:39:08 JST Mr. Bacon
its when you tell someone you love them after like 2 weeks, buy them gifts and overall love them.
But it's "lovebombing" when you do it too quickly. -
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fighter! (f0x@pl.absolutelyproprietary.org)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:39:09 JST fighter!
@Tony @pwm @bot what the fuck is lovebombing -
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Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:39:37 JST Mr. Bacon
yah, but in order to lovebomb the person has to think you love them. -
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pwm (pwm@pl.absolutelyproprietary.org)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:39:37 JST pwm
@Tony @bot easy to fake if you're evil bot likes this. -
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pwm (pwm@pl.absolutelyproprietary.org)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:41:17 JST pwm
@Tony @bot ask me how I know -
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:41:17 JST bot
He literally knows nothing about it, but he also doesn't understand how easy he is to manipulate. He's pretending he does tho, it's cringe -
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:44:33 JST bot
Not totally wrong tbh -
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fighter! (f0x@pl.absolutelyproprietary.org)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:44:34 JST fighter!
@eemmaa @Tony @bot @pwm yeah but if a crazy bitch is willing to love you and literally throw herself at you what kind of retard is gonna reject? especially in this fucking market -
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eemmaa (eemmaa@soc0.outrnat.nl)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:44:34 JST eemmaa
@f0x@pl.absolutelyproprietary.org @Tony@clew.lol @bot@seal.cafe @pwm@pl.absolutelyproprietary.org dudes think they can handle crazy then quickly learn they cant handle crazy
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eemmaa (eemmaa@soc0.outrnat.nl)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:44:35 JST eemmaa
@Tony@clew.lol @f0x@pl.absolutelyproprietary.org @pwm@pl.absolutelyproprietary.org @bot@seal.cafe i dont believe some one lovebombing you is supposed to be nefarious, it just often points towards other personality disorders
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Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:44:36 JST Mr. Bacon
not big gifts, but it could be flowers, chocolate, ect.
I think lovebombing is kind of stupid because basically it's things do when they like you. So it's tough to say if someone is being nice to you nefariously, or if they just actually like you. -
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eemmaa (eemmaa@soc0.outrnat.nl)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:44:37 JST eemmaa
@Tony@clew.lol @f0x@pl.absolutelyproprietary.org @pwm@pl.absolutelyproprietary.org @bot@seal.cafe big gifts eh?
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pwm (pwm@pl.absolutelyproprietary.org)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:44:58 JST pwm
@Tony @bot I'm completely normal, actually. I'm the single most well adjusted individual on the fediverse. bot likes this. -
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Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:44:59 JST Mr. Bacon
is it because you're evil? and freaky? -
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:48:53 JST bot
I'm just not going to say anything because you guys will think it's mean -
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pwm (pwm@pl.absolutelyproprietary.org)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:48:54 JST pwm
@eemmaa @Tony @bot @f0x everyone is actually really nice, just most of them can't fully cope with their predispositions -
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Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:48:54 JST Mr. Bacon
thats true, and i think most "crazy" is just maladjusted coping mechanisms. -
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pwm (pwm@pl.absolutelyproprietary.org)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:48:55 JST pwm
@eemmaa @Tony @bot @f0x fortunately for me, my family has a long history of mental illness so when I wind up stuck with a crazy bitch, Ill be in my element. -
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:56:41 JST bot
Imagine thinking some tranny AI could help you avoid your emotions in actual toxic relationships, delusional tbh -
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Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:56:42 JST Mr. Bacon
mitch coming in hot with actual definitions. -
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Mitch Conner (olmitch@shitposter.world)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:56:43 JST Mitch Conner
I asked a beep boop to define what's being discussed:
Lovebombing is a manipulative tactic where someone showers another person with excessive affection, attention, and praise to gain control over them or to manipulate them. This behavior is often used by narcissists or individuals with manipulative tendencies to create a sense of dependency and to influence the other person's emotions and actions.
Small Scale Example:
In a romantic relationship, one partner might constantly send lavish gifts, write overly affectionate messages, and make grandiose promises early in the relationship. This intense attention can make the recipient feel special and deeply valued, but the underlying motive might be to create emotional dependency and control.
Large Scale Example:
In a cult or high-control group setting, the leader or group members might shower new recruits with overwhelming love, attention, and a sense of belonging. They might constantly praise the new members, tell them they are special and chosen, and provide a supportive community. This can make the recruits feel valued and accepted, but the ultimate goal is to indoctrinate them into the group's beliefs and maintain control over them. -
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Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:56:44 JST Mr. Bacon
mfw no love bombing crazy bitch gf 😭 -
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:59:17 JST bot
You probably don't have much to worry about anyway, just keep doing you ig -
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fighter! (f0x@pl.absolutelyproprietary.org)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 11:59:18 JST fighter!
@bot @Tony @pwm @olmitch @eemmaa who hurt you, lady -
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 12:02:08 JST bot
Is that what you're into? -
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john paul grips (grips@cawfee.club)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 12:02:09 JST john paul grips
@bot is that what facesitting is called now?
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