@transgrammaractivist @AmonMaritza @Cough @Rose @Starprophet1 @doctorsex @matty @mjdigspigs @Neofugue1 @SilverDeth @TrevorGoodchild @wing_str the first question is real easy: because he's a bit autistic and hails from Jim's Blog, where that is a somewhat unfortunate aspect of the environment: they're famous for takes on female sexuality in particular which are unfortunately indistinguishable in many instances from the average pedo/ephebo justifications
(I note that there is a certain internal logic to the takes they have, rooted in observable biological and social fact, but the civilized mind does recoil from their conclusions none the less)
if you want to boil his point down to its essence, though? it isn't a "should"
here's a hard truth to swallow: there are going to be warbrides of precisely that type, that happens in every single war ever in human history and no war in the future will ever be an exception, any Person of Concave is going to wind up with some very unfortunate incidents in her wartime biography (including, generally, lifelong reminders of those incidents who call her 'Mom') and this is simple historical fact
so at the end of the day, it isn't a question of "whether you support it or not", it's going to happen (if you don't believe me, go ask German women of a certain age what happened when their country was occupied)
want another hard truth? ....how exactly do you think a warlord is going to appeal to that vast mass of incels out there that are going to comprise most of his troops? what tools do you think he's going to use? do you think, in the final analysis, that all of them are going to care about adherence to laws that, by definition and ancient habit, are silenced during wartime?
or, do you think they're simply going to come up with some roughly tolerable and equitable way of parceling out Concave Resources to their troops, with generous boundaries for their use designed to maintain good order and discipline?
that seemed, to me, to be what SP was saying
I'll let you think about that for a bit