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   🕷️spooky jepyang 🕸️ (jepyang@wandering.shop)'s status on Thursday, 13-Jun-2024 18:44:06 JST 🕷️spooky jepyang 🕸️

   having been the “cishet husband of a bi person at pride”, i just wanna say—and i mean this from the bottom of my freshly grown tits—don’t gatekeep that shit

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     13 barn owls in a trenchcoat (hauntedowlbear@eldritch.cafe)'s status on Thursday, 13-Jun-2024 18:44:05 JST 13 barn owls in a trenchcoat

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     @jepyang it's perhaps a little old fashioned by modern standards, but when I ran a queer group (15 years ago now) our inclusion of "allies" was doing a lot of work running cover for closeted friends, heteroflexible and nonbinary folks who weren't comfortable claiming queer identities, and a surprising number of people who'd only later acknowledge that they were questioning.

     But the "don't bring your partner" discourse in particular needs to fuck right off.

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     Antiqueight (antiqueight@mastodon.ie)'s status on Friday, 14-Jun-2024 16:21:02 JST Antiqueight

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     • 13 barn owls in a trenchcoat

     @HauntedOwlbear @jepyang oh yes.