@noyoushutthefuckupdad@sun I think the reason why we don't have all our follows has to do the people on the other side being stuck on "Awaiting approval. Click to cancel follow request".
basically it seems that a bunch of the auto follows (caused by the migration) are stuck in this limbo state.
They way for someone (on e.g. poast) on another instance to follow someone (e.g. dad) on SPW (who they used to follow on SPC) is: go to dad's profile https://poa.st/@noyoushutthefuckupdad@shitposter.world then click "Awaiting approval. Click to cancel follow request" then reload the page then click follow I'm not sure if it's just a poast thing, but I guess not