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   Sick Sun (sun@shitposter.world)'s status on Sunday, 21-Apr-2024 08:12:01 JST Sick Sun

   • iced depresso
   • Arcana
   • tiskaan
   • hyolo
   • Ailunarenth
   @arcana @icedquinn @Ailunarenth @hyolo @naaksit those men are both perpetrators and victims, they are preyed on by people selling "systems". It's not women's job to tolerate or correct men that get on the "pua" train but basically I have seen as many "why does this never work for me?" lumped in with highly selfish and maladjusted people. I am sorry to say it but a small portion of the criticism is correct. a lot of the disgust is the same old sexual shaming that some women have always done where low quality men have to be punished for trying to have life fulfillment like everyone else.
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     iced depresso (icedquinn@blob.cat)'s status on Sunday, 21-Apr-2024 08:18:33 JST iced depresso

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     • Arcana
     • tiskaan
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     @sun @Ailunarenth @hyolo @arcana @naaksit when i'm rejected their name goes in the file and that's the end of it.
     
     we don't usually stay friends.
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     iced depresso (icedquinn@blob.cat)'s status on Sunday, 21-Apr-2024 08:21:29 JST iced depresso

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     @Ailunarenth @hyolo @arcana @naaksit @sun people constantly ask me stupid questions like "well how do you know its always like this" and i can pull out the spreadsheet where i was rejected ten times for my physical appearance etc
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     Ailunarenth (ailunarenth@breastmilk.club)'s status on Sunday, 21-Apr-2024 08:21:30 JST Ailunarenth

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     • iced depresso
     • Arcana
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     Why do you keep the list, though?

     @icedquinn @hyolo @arcana @naaksit @sun

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     iced depresso (icedquinn@blob.cat)'s status on Sunday, 21-Apr-2024 08:24:11 JST iced depresso

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     • Rehn
     • Arcana
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     @RehnSturm256 @Ailunarenth @hyolo @arcana @naaksit @sun theres a name in one column and the reason in the other column.
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     Rehn (rehnsturm256@shota.house)'s status on Sunday, 21-Apr-2024 08:24:12 JST Rehn

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     • iced depresso
     • Arcana
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     @icedquinn @Ailunarenth @hyolo @arcana @naaksit @sun you shouldn’t be keeping the names just to seethe over, writing them down should be a way to address something and move past it. I don’t think you’re doing it right.

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     Sick Sun (sun@shitposter.world)'s status on Sunday, 21-Apr-2024 08:29:08 JST Sick Sun

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     • iced depresso
     • Arcana
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     @arcana @Ailunarenth @hyolo @icedquinn @naaksit I am in my 40s and I still haven't figured out tons of shit and I still have problems navigating this. I am good at getting first dates but if there's not compatibility it doesn't last so I don't get a lot of third dates. I know I'm a weirdo. Some girls find it endearing, even attractive but most don't. Finding the right person is hard because everyone is at least partially guarded. To a large extent it's a numbers game. What really sucks about this is you might get called a creep when you're not one. I experienced this recently, I went on a bunch of dates and one girl the second date really didn't go well. another girl was really attracted to me, it didn't work out for other reasons though. in the end if I was creepy or attractive was which girl you asked.