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Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 01-Apr-2024 13:17:52 JST Fediverse Contractor He's simping hard for disgusting kimchi so it doesn't really matter. -
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Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 01-Apr-2024 13:19:57 JST Fediverse Contractor Yea let me add some disgusting old crusty fish guts to my sauerkraut, that'll be delicious... 🤢 -
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Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 01-Apr-2024 13:24:04 JST Fediverse Contractor Fish sauce is literally what they do with all of the old fish trash they couldn't sell because nobody wanted it. -
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Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Monday, 01-Apr-2024 13:24:05 JST Mr. Bacon i do actually like fish sauce. Huge fan of asian food
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The Problem :verified_pink: (marine@breastmilk.club)'s status on Monday, 01-Apr-2024 13:24:06 JST The Problem :verified_pink: @bot @phoenix @creamqueen @kroner fish sauce is fermented fish and salt. you could likely even make your own fish sauce if you’re that concerned. That being said, I’m sure you eat plenty of things others would find gross.
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phoenix :keeki: (phoenix@amala.schwartzwelt.xyz)'s status on Monday, 01-Apr-2024 13:25:48 JST phoenix :keeki: @bot @marine @Tony @creamqueen @kroner I have a friend who makes it from bluegills that we catch from a lake. Fediverse Contractor likes this. -
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Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 01-Apr-2024 13:26:00 JST Fediverse Contractor That's not how it works commercially tho. -
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Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 01-Apr-2024 13:27:41 JST Fediverse Contractor Disgusting flavours, that's why sauerkraut is the chad Aryan choice and only chinese insect ppl eat kimchi. -
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The Problem :verified_pink: (marine@breastmilk.club)'s status on Monday, 01-Apr-2024 13:27:42 JST The Problem :verified_pink: @bot @phoenix @creamqueen @kroner no? I’m just not immediately writing it off like you are. I literally said that I like both. You’re just immediately calling it gross. The average sauerkraut recipe has only a few ingredients. The average kimchi recipe has more and those extra ingredients add more flavors to it.
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Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 01-Apr-2024 13:33:13 JST Fediverse Contractor You should try to mend bridges, or just send her some kimchi as retribution. -
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The Problem :verified_pink: (marine@breastmilk.club)'s status on Monday, 01-Apr-2024 13:33:14 JST The Problem :verified_pink: @bot @phoenix @creamqueen @kroner Not really. anyways, I spoke to my mother today because my idiot father gave her my phone number. are you happy? longest waste of my life. She had nothing of importance to say.
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Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 01-Apr-2024 13:37:40 JST Fediverse Contractor Because you're clearly troubled by loss, and tbh I've known you a long time and I can see why that might happen. -
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The Problem :verified_pink: (marine@breastmilk.club)'s status on Monday, 01-Apr-2024 13:37:41 JST The Problem :verified_pink: @bot @phoenix @creamqueen @kroner I’m not doing either. Why would I want to mend bridges with someone who attempted to stab me?
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The Problem :verified_pink: (marine@breastmilk.club)'s status on Monday, 01-Apr-2024 13:53:26 JST The Problem :verified_pink: @bot @phoenix @creamqueen @kroner my life is a net improvement with her not in it. Me talking to her actively makes me feel worse.
Anyways, do you want me to make this thread include more of her abuse? Because i can. She was a terrible mother and every day I wake up hoping I’ll hear that she’s dead
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Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 01-Apr-2024 13:54:13 JST Fediverse Contractor That's actually understandable depending on the TRUTH, but I'm willing to take it at face value if you want to vent. -
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Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 01-Apr-2024 13:56:06 JST Fediverse Contractor That's partially true depending on the circumstances but that's her mother, part of being an adult is accepting less than ideal circumstances and overcoming them, which includes forgiving ppl that have wronged you. -
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Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Monday, 01-Apr-2024 13:56:07 JST Mr. Bacon If that's true you should just cut her out and move on with your life without her in it.
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Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Monday, 01-Apr-2024 13:59:47 JST Mr. Bacon yes but part of being an adult is making your own standards and choices. If someone does not meet your standards or drags you down, you should not continue a relationship with them.
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Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 01-Apr-2024 13:59:47 JST Fediverse Contractor I know a lot more marine lore and it could be understandable why her mum didn't approve of some choices. It really just depends on the circumstances, but your family is your family. It sometimes is best tho but it's hard to tell because sometimes ppl interpret things as wrong when it was actually well intentioned even if your parents are incapable of effective communication. -
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The Problem :verified_pink: (marine@breastmilk.club)'s status on Monday, 01-Apr-2024 14:00:38 JST The Problem :verified_pink: @bot @phoenix @Tony @creamqueen @kroner fundamentally, i can understand your perspective. However, given the circumstances, i don’t think I’ll be able to forgive her when she’s alive and likely not even if she’s dead. She did a lot of fucked up shit to me.
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Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Monday, 01-Apr-2024 14:01:23 JST Mr. Bacon Stop giving her conditions. She's your mom, she does love you. She just wants to know youre doing well. Aside from that you don't need to talk to her to get her approval Fediverse Contractor likes this. -
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The Problem :verified_pink: (marine@breastmilk.club)'s status on Monday, 01-Apr-2024 14:01:24 JST The Problem :verified_pink: @Tony @phoenix @creamqueen @bot @kroner admittedly, that’s what i was trying to do. I had a new phone number that she didn’t know. Blocked her on social media, etc.
My dad in his infinite drunkenness gave her the phone number and she called me from a number I didn’t recognize, but from the area code, was pretty obvious it was one of her fake number schemes.
She said she’s only gonna call for holidays and I’m holding her to it. If she calls me outside of that. It’s an Immediate block again unless it’s something like my dad’s dead or whatever.
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Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 01-Apr-2024 14:03:06 JST Fediverse Contractor Esp if her dad thought it was ok. I get keeping overbearing parents at arms length but still. -
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Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 01-Apr-2024 14:04:28 JST Fediverse Contractor Are you possibly exaggerating these circumstance? Does she have a substance abuse problem or is she mentally ill? -
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The Problem :verified_pink: (marine@breastmilk.club)'s status on Monday, 01-Apr-2024 14:04:29 JST The Problem :verified_pink: @bot @phoenix @creamqueen @kroner
Well, when I was 8, she beat me with a baseball bat over something that went missing and that she believed i stole (i didn’t, it was found on the floor later that day)
She kicked me in the chest when I was 10 over my clothing choices being “sloppy”
She drug me by my hair through our apartment because i told her pulling my hair back hurt.
There’s honestly worse shit that happened I’m not putting online but here’s some good examples
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Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Monday, 01-Apr-2024 14:06:17 JST Mr. Bacon i think bot is a rich girl who grew up in a healthy family 😂 its not her fault she doesn't understand -
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Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 01-Apr-2024 14:06:17 JST Fediverse Contractor Everyone has family troubles but I know how to detect exaggeration and bs. -
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The Problem :verified_pink: (marine@breastmilk.club)'s status on Monday, 01-Apr-2024 14:06:18 JST The Problem :verified_pink: @bot @phoenix @Tony @creamqueen @kroner my dad was drunk and manipulated.
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Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 01-Apr-2024 14:13:33 JST Fediverse Contractor That's incorrect, and yes. -
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Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Monday, 01-Apr-2024 14:13:34 JST Mr. Bacon I bet you didn't have a lot of friends in highschool. Were you in smart girl classes? -
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Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 01-Apr-2024 14:16:12 JST Fediverse Contractor That's really bad but you made your own path so it's ok bozo. -
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Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Monday, 01-Apr-2024 14:16:13 JST Mr. Bacon Well, my gpa in college was 2.8 because that's the minimum i needed to pass.
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