@fabio @greenWhale @SallyStrange @aud @aral @eatyourglory @nonlinear
Mate. This isn't a difficult thing to grasp.
You're arguing in favour of people being put into uncomfortable situations, and putting the emphasis on *them* to get themselves out of it.
Other people are arguing that they'd rather not be put into that situation in the first place, especially because they've entered a building which explicitly says - on the outside, before they walked in - "we don't let in bigots" - and feel that that plaque should be honoured.
To then turn around - especially after the event - and say "welp, I think you need to toughen up, kiddo - I'm letting them in anyway - but, y'know, I'm here for you ❤️ and will defend you against the people I've advocated to be let in the front door - now say thank you"...
I mean, It's not...well, it's not the best approach, is it?