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@mischievoustomato
I agree. There's nothing wrong with unfollowing people. If you think doing something else might be more beneficial to you — do that instead of responding to everyone, it might seem that people will get offended by it, but no — they will just move on. You have to prioritize — you even have to do it in real life, you don't have all the time in the world to hang out with everyone, including the wrong people — it might sound cynical, but you're not obliged to waste your life on being nice to everyone, it's your life and yours only.
Try taking breaks from Fedi — it's easier than you think it is, it might seem boring first, but when your mind adapts to not having this constant "social" stimulation, it gets very easy to do other things that might require prolonged periods of concentration.
Also, Fedi is in fact really poor "social window" — people here might seem fun, but some exhibit outright antisocial behaviour and you might get all the wrong ideas about how to interact with people outside Fedi from them. Treat it as some casual game you can play during a short break — not as a replacement for real social interactions.
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