Shufei
Provoked by a dollop of hopeful shame, there are times I still wonder if I’m “on the spectrum”. Then something about human society wallops me right into “Yes. Yes, I really am so bloody autistic.” No matter how consummately I try to emulate, anticipate, script, conscript, or model it… neurotypical human social brouhaha is a game I can never ever really play at, never mind win.
I’m too old to really care to try anymore. So… cheers to us. 🥂
Yohan Yukiya Sese Cuneta 사요한🦣
@nddev @benjamincox @EVDHmn @Shufei @actuallyautistic
Watch it first, don't skip nor drop.
You mentioned, you've only watched the first episode? In Episode 3, IIRC, it was a case about another #Autistic, and she explained to her co-workers that #Autism is a spectrum.
If you judge it by its cover, you'll miss the objective of the show. They cannot possibly pack everything in a single episode just to appease the audience. 😉
Secondly. An autistic like her does exist. It is not exaggerated. You are just different from her. 🙂 Saying she's exaggerated is indirectly telling those like her as "you're exaggerating". Think about it.
Third. Many #ActuallyAutistics approved of that show far more than most other shows (#TV and #Movies) about autism.
Fourth. The show also exposed and brought to the surface, the many discrimination, stereotypes, and prejudice, the autistic community faces daily. Even in the realm of romance.
The thing about EAW is that, the audience reaction during its run compliments the show.
For example, when EAW touched on romance, there were audiences who showed their true colours with comments like "people with mental disability should not enter into a relationship nor have kids, they'll only spread their disease", etc.
That kind of people were the target of the show, and the show made them reveal their true colours.
Fifth. The show changed lives. Not everyone, obviously, but it did. Like mine.
I used to mask a lot. I used to hide that I am autistic. But because of EAW, it gave me courage to stand against discrimination, stereotypes, and prejudices; as well as, to be #OpenlyAutistic. It was helpful for my mental health and identity.
I am NOT saying that those who chose to still mask are not doing anything to fight the prejudice. NO. It is a personal matter, and it depends on where you are and your culture. For me, the reason I was masking a lot was because I'm tired of the discrimination. I grew up thinking "something is wrong with me" and "this is the way to do things to be accepted by society".
So, me going open is a fight against the wrong things I personally experienced and the things wrong around me. It is deeply personal. I hope no one misinterprets me on this.
Conclusion: Was EAW perfect?
Of course it isn't. However, based on the number of productions I've seen "about autistics" and where "autistic characters were included just for the sake of including", EAW was the best so far.
The actress herself was a psychology graduate. She initially did not want to take on the role because she's fully aware how important it is to get it right, and it is impossible to appeal to autistics, after all, autism is a spectrum. There will always be "that's not how I am" or "that's not how my relative is".
They made her character a mix of various autistic characteristics. In the latter episodes, they even depicted a meltdown and shutdown, and she did a very good job. I highly applauded her for that scene.
Anyway. 😉
ND Dev
@benjamincox @EVDHmn @Shufei @actuallyautistic
Same here.
I started watching #ExtraordinaryAttorneyWoo yesterday evening, and I found the character exaggerated. There was a lot that was exactly right, but a fair amount that didn't match my experience at all, or which seemed to have been played almost for laughs. I have to remind myself that it's entertainment, not a documentary, and that every autist's experience is unique. But the character seems terribly childlike. Is that how people see us?
TBH, after watching just the first episode, I'm not sure how I feel about that series. I'll give it a few more episodes and then decide.
Benzo Kazooie
@EVDHmn @Shufei @actuallyautistic Definitely. The autistic community here and the #ActuallyAutistic hashtag have been invaluable to me recently. 🙏🏻
Everyday.Human Derek
@benjamincox @Shufei @actuallyautistic
I found reading others perspectives and narratives helpful, in expanding and identifying your own perspective.
Benzo Kazooie
@Shufei @actuallyautistic Since discovering my own #autism, I keep wondering how autistic I actually am. I keep seeing characters on TV or in videogames like Sam from #DeathStranding and feeling like a) they seem more autistic than myself and b) I share some of their traits as well. Until I get officially diagnosed, I’ll just keep asking myself the same questions. 🤔
Yohan Yukiya Sese Cuneta 사요한🦣
@nddev @benjamincox @EVDHmn @Shufei @actuallyautistic
Watch it first, don't skip nor drop.
You mentioned, you've only watched the first episode? In Episode 3, IIRC, it was a case about another #Autistic, and she explained to her co-workers that #Autism is a spectrum.
If you judge it by its cover, you'll miss the objective of the show. They cannot possibly pack everything in a single episode. 😉
Secondly. An autistic like her does exist. It is not exaggerated. You are just different from her. 🙂 Saying she's exaggerated is indirectly telling those like her as "you're exaggerating". Think about it.
Third. Many #ActuallyAutistics approved of that show far more than most other shows (#TV and #Movies) about autism.
Fourth. The show also exposed and brought to the surface, the many discrimination, stereotypes, and prejudice, the autistic community faces daily. Even in the realm of romance.
The thing about EAW is that, the audience reaction during its run compliments the show.
For example, when EAW touched on romance, there were audiences who showed their true colours with comments like "people with mental disability should not enter into a relationship nor have kids, they'll only spread their disease", etc.
That kind of people were the target of the show, and the show made them reveal their true colours.
Fifth. The show changed lives. Not everyone, obviously, but it did. Like mine.
I used to mask a lot. I used to hide that I am autistic. But because of EAW, it gave me courage to stand against discrimination, stereotypes, and prejudices; as well as, to be #OpenlyAutistic. It was helpful for my mental health and identity.
I am NOT saying that those who chose to still mask are not doing anything to fight the prejudice. NO. It is a personal matter, and it depends on where you are and your culture. For me, the reason I was masking a lot was because I'm tired of the discrimination. I grew up thinking "something is wrong with me" and "this is the way to do things to be accepted by society".
So, me going open is a fight against the wrong things I personally experienced. It is deeply personal.
Conclusion: Was EAW perfect?
Of course it isn't. However, based on the number of productions I've seen "about autistics" and where "autistic characters were included just for the sake of including", EAW was the best so far.
The actress herself was a psychology graduate. She initially did not want to take on the role because she's fully aware how important it is to get it right, and it is impossible to appeal to autistics, after all, autism is a spectrum. There will always be "that's not how I am" or "that's not how my relative is".
They made her character a mix of various autistic characteristics. In the latter episodes, they even depicted a meltdown and shutdown, and she did a very good job. I highly applauded her for that scene.
Anyway. 😉
Yohan Yukiya Sese Cuneta 사요한🦣
@benjamincox @nddev @EVDHmn @Shufei @actuallyautistic @autistics
For EAW? I don't know. It wasn't just me that EAW resonated well. During its run, there was a lot of positive feedback about it from autistics and autistic parents. I was actually surprised because whenever autistic is depicted, it's almost always a negative feedback, but it was different for EAW.
For example, "X+Y", despite it based on a true story, it still garnered so much negative feedback. I can't even imagine what the person would have felt for his story to be dismissed like that. (Sure, the movie did use literary freedom, but to still get feedback like "autistics are not like that" and "stereotype"?)
🙂
Benzo Kazooie
@youronlyone @nddev @EVDHmn @Shufei @actuallyautistic @autistics I’m glad that the show resonated with you so well. But it seems like it is the exception instead of the standard & this needs to change.
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