So what do you say or do to make a difference? To have an impact? What can be said that won't be incendiary?
In my youth, we had over 500,000 troops in Vietnam. As I got older I watched friends get sucked into that endless revolving door of a war. We protested we waited our turn to go and have our lives ruined. I got lucky, unlike some of my friends. Almost no one came back intact.
We have to stop fighting useless battles. That's the answer.