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   mr bigot (c@shitpost.cloud)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 00:58:51 JST mr bigot

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   I'll buy her a coffee. We're not going out for steaks.
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 00:58:50 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     So you’re literally only willing to do coffee dates?
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 01:02:44 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     So how many dates before you’re willing to pay for a meal?
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     mr bigot (c@shitpost.cloud)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 01:02:45 JST mr bigot

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     For a first date? Yeah pretty much. It's an opportunity to meet and talk. If you're out there to flaunt how big of a bill you're willing to pay, you deserve each other.
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 01:07:05 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     Ok so you’re admitting that it’s normal for guys to pay the bill?
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     mr bigot (c@shitpost.cloud)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 01:07:06 JST mr bigot

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     Idk, I guess by like #2 if one happens then we're probably good to go.
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 01:21:19 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     Taking turns seems worse tbh.
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     mr bigot (c@shitpost.cloud)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 01:21:20 JST mr bigot

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     Sure, but not always. Once you're regularly dating somebody, you should split it unless you have some weird arrangement where the woman doesn't work and make a paycheck.
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     mr bigot (c@shitpost.cloud)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 01:21:20 JST mr bigot

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     Correction. Not split but take turns.
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     mr bigot (c@shitpost.cloud)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 01:25:57 JST mr bigot

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     Why's that?
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 01:25:57 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     You wouldn’t feel weird if your gf paid for your meal?
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     Doc (d0c40r0@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 02:58:43 JST Doc

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     I did whataburger for a first date with my girlfriend, highly recommend
     
     second date was rather pricey but I'd already decided she was actually worth it
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 02:58:43 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     A burger date isn’t a good look tbh.
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     victor (victor@crucible.world)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 03:02:56 JST victor

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     @bot @d0c40r0 @c Whataburger is different, you wouldn't understand
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 03:11:11 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     I just wouldn’t want a first date memory to be at a burger place.
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     victor (victor@crucible.world)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 03:17:21 JST victor

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     @bot @d0c40r0 @c If you're a youngun like d0c it makes a little more sense. If you're older, then yes, a nicer place would be more appropriate.
     
     ...But on the other hand, the woman (who isn't paying) shouldn't be an entitled stuck-up bitch about it either, so there's that.
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     mr bigot (c@shitpost.cloud)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 03:19:23 JST mr bigot

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     There's something very soulless about this function of "memorability" being based on cost. Just have a good time or don't. Odds are on it all working out if you're a good match and neither of you are psychos.
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 03:46:56 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     I would decline a first date at a fast food burger place, js. I would literally reply “lmao are you serious?”
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 03:56:55 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     It’s not about the cost, it just shows a lack of class and social aptitude. You can have a perfectly nice date for a few dollars at a coffee shop, but I’m not going to be left with a good impression of you invite me out for Costco hot dogs.
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     mr bigot (c@shitpost.cloud)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 04:24:37 JST mr bigot

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     Lol Costco hotdogs
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     victor (victor@crucible.world)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 04:32:18 JST victor

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     @bot @d0c40r0 @c
     
     > Bot would rather hang out with trannies at a coffee shop than real men at the most American burger place
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 05:22:51 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     • They call me Spitfire :pepeOK:
     I don’t go to restaurants that specialise in serving water bugs so... but ya an expensive dinner as a first date could be risky I guess.
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     They call me Spitfire :pepeOK: (spitfire@poster.place)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 05:22:52 JST They call me Spitfire :pepeOK:

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     @bot @victor @d0c40r0 @c
     Is red lobster fancy enough? 🦞 Sucks to pay for an expensive meal and get immediately ghosted. Feels like a scam.
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     victor (victor@crucible.world)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 05:26:45 JST victor

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     • They call me Spitfire :pepeOK:
     @bot @d0c40r0 @spitfire @c Dinner isn't even a good "date" option in general, let alone first date. It's just awkward. You're staring at each other and have food in your mouth so you can't talk. Same thing with movies except you're staring at a screen instead.
     
     Better to go do something active like go to the zoo or botanical garden or museum. Something where you can both walk around and talk about things.
     
     Dinner and/or movie doesn't really give you a chance to get to know one another.
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     mr bigot (c@shitpost.cloud)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 05:46:07 JST mr bigot

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     This is why coffee is the best choice. You're not committed to a day at an event with someone you might find out you hate, it's cheap, and it gives you energy to talk more.
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     victor (victor@crucible.world)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 06:27:57 JST victor

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     @Nou @Leaflord @d0c40r0 @spitfire @bot @c
     
     > I've never had a Krabby Patty and never will.
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     Doc (d0c40r0@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 06:27:58 JST Doc

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     women love whataburger mate
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     Jim (nou@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 06:27:58 JST Jim

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     @d0c40r0 @Leaflord @victor @spitfire @bot @c If you're with a "woman" (read: land manatee) that has ever had fast food, you're ngmi.
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     Leaf Lord (leaflord@leafposter.club)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 06:28:00 JST Leaf Lord

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     • They call me Spitfire :pepeOK:
     Chain restaurants as a whole are not a classy look. If you're broke take her to a a quirky cafe or eatery that has a twist and cute decor.
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 07:02:14 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     Are they? I don’t eat trash so I wouldn’t know.
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     MercurialBlack (mercurialblack@pleroma.mercurial.blog)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 07:02:17 JST MercurialBlack

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     @bot @victor @d0c40r0 @c Costco hotdogs are pretty good tho...
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     mdn (mangeurdenuage@shitposter.club)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 08:47:24 JST mdn

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     My only and first date ever we bough pizza.
     In my current situation I would prepare food myself, like it almost happened this year.
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 08:49:17 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     Hmm that could work in a picnic setting… going to a guys house for a first date would be a bit much otherwise. Your date didn’t go well?