unpopular thought: I’m still on the fence on the hypothetical “be a cuck or die alone” question. When we talk about it, guys often do that “dude I’d die a bachelor instead of stooping to marry a ran-through whore”…. but I have to wonder if there’s a point at which God will judge you for being too prideful to be willing to forgive an otherwise good wife/mother with a disgusting past. (hypthetically, IRL such women are…..rare)
I wouldn’t ever do it, still, but that’s because I’m a very imperfect, unrighteous person in a lot of ways. I just wonder if the pride aspect is what can burn you. In some hypothetical, perfect version of events where a woman is truly repentant, when she’s really turned her life around, when she actually would make a good mother to your would-be children, wouldn’t the only thing keeping your kids from existence be your pride?
If you refused to date ‘down’, will you end up at judgement day hearing “dummy, I sent 5 wives to you and you turned your nose up at every one. You were incel by choice, not fate“?