okay, think i've had enough reminders of how fiddly this era was, decided on putting Windows 95 OSR2 on this thing, which will give us FAT32, networking, and all drivers for this system out of the box
bad news, the cdrom is detected but doesn't see any disks, and to top it off the one CD burner i saved doesn't seem to work anymore 🙃
that leaves the network card for mass movement of data onto this machine
so by installing Basic Linux, an old two floppy Linux based on Slackware 4.0, i was able to feed the Win95 install files over the network
https://distro.ibiblio.org/baslinux/
ezhttpd for the win once again
https://github.com/SegHaxx/ezhttpd
old PC tech trick, just copy the Win95 directory from the CD onto a blank C: drive, and start the install from there
you will never have to suffer the dreaded "please insert the Win95 install CD" dialogs when fiddling with drivers