Notices by Good grief, it's you (treppenwitz@sfba.social)

@BeAware I read somewhere that most folks are motivated by Importance, Interest, and Urgency... but when you have ADHD, Importance doesn't register (until of course it becomes urgent).

I think about this all the time. :/

@BeAware The scenario I'm imagining is:
1. Alice posts almost entirely privately on her own account.
2. Alice follows and comments publicly on Bob's posts, and would appreciate his comments on her posts.
3. Bob takes notice and looks at her posts, but he only sees her bland public posts every few months. So he doesn't bother following back.
4. And even if he did, Alice would either have to:
A. Post followers-only, which would also give her ex, Carla, access to her semi-private posts. (Sure, she could block Carla, but that means a tearful hour-long conversation. You know how Carla is.) or
B. Post "private mention" and painstakingly add all of the people she follows, which -- wouldn't that alert them also?

The reason I'm interested in this is because I'd like to share more of my life here. Make it more of a #Facebook replacement.

Sorry, I wrote a lot. I think I may have a misunderstanding about how privacy works on Mastodon.

How can I set a post's privacy to only be visible to people I follow? I see how to set it to only my followers, but I don't (and don't want to) choose who follows me.

#mastodon