Notices by agoodboysforeverhole (agoodboysforeverhole@blorbo.social)

@lookitmychicken I think it always does carry the quiet assumption of gay???perhabs??? but that’s okay because it’s just an impression you have of someone based on their looks. However, a person can absolutely call themself a twink because we can be very aware of how we come across and what traits people find attracrive about us and we can cultivate our image.

@lookitmychicken Yeah, I’d say that twink is an objectifying term (not in a bad way) In the way that seeing someone as a twink will predcede any knowledge of their gender identity or sexual orientation.

@lookitmychicken So, I’m bi and nb but totally look like a woman so I have dated mostly straight cis men, as that is statistically more likely than anything else. I’m attracted to twinks or men who look like twinks, I guess. Not exclusively, but very often. Here are a few things to consider, though. When you date a nonbinary person as a dude, doesn’t that technically make you not-straight? And if I don’t tell you, have I stealthily made you do a queer thing? Also, straight man can be bottoms, too. Very important. None of that has much to do with the original question but well. I say, straight men can be twinks because if they look like one and you’re a gay man and think someone’s hot/attractive in that specific way (you might not know whether they’re queer) your fantasy/desire defines your idea of them. Which might be that of a twink. The twink is formed in the gaze.

@lookitmychicken Well it’s not left or right!

@lookitmychicken Any and all music sounds like that to me when I’m trying to focus on fucking tbh

@lookitmychicken Maybeeee. Can I message you?

When Wangxian get their romance and happy ending while the world around them is still, again broken, that‘s just too real. Nothing is okay. Their happiness is an accidental side effect of destruction. I like it. It‘s sad.