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@lookitmychicken So, I’m bi and nb but totally look like a woman so I have dated mostly straight cis men, as that is statistically more likely than anything else. I’m attracted to twinks or men who look like twinks, I guess. Not exclusively, but very often. Here are a few things to consider, though. When you date a nonbinary person as a dude, doesn’t that technically make you not-straight? And if I don’t tell you, have I stealthily made you do a queer thing? Also, straight man can be bottoms, too. Very important. None of that has much to do with the original question but well. I say, straight men can be twinks because if they look like one and you’re a gay man and think someone’s hot/attractive in that specific way (you might not know whether they’re queer) your fantasy/desire defines your idea of them. Which might be that of a twink. The twink is formed in the gaze.