@anarchopunk_girl I grew up in the BBS era. My parents had no idea what I was doing or who I was talking to directly, but we’re involved enough in my life to get a feel for my dangers and prepare me for them well. This served me well in life as a whole. I turned out fine without the policing. My own kids turned out fine too. Maybe if there were better parents, or if they didn’t expect a computer (or someone else, generally) to do this work for them, we’d be in a better position?