Notices by Burn This Dyspho Out 🏳️‍⚧️ (testoceratops@disabled.social), page 7

The poll is on for less than 6 hours now.

I thought it'd be too long to wait 24 hours as we're really struggling and won't be able to get groceries for the weekend, unless we get money for it tonight.

If the results are all the same, or one has the majority by far, I probably won't wait until the end of the poll. That'd be too late for money to be on my bank account tomorrow

We're almost out of money for groceries, but can't touch the money we're raising for the inheritance fees.

Gonna have to start a new crowdfunding for March survival, rent is to be paid on the 5th. We'll never make it in time with 2 crowdfundings ongoing.

Plus, it's gonna be difficult to keep track on who donates for our survival or the fees.

That's giving me a headache, please, help with the crowdfunding to end it and be able to ask for survival

I wrote this important thread, please read if you can and boost for visibility. :boost_ok:

Here's how to react if someone is having a generalized tonic-clonic seizure in front of you!

Different situations are taken into account to give as much info as possible.

Look at their wrists asap to see if they have a bracelet. If they're epileptic, there's a chance they have one with instructions to follow and a number to call.

Really important element: look at what time it is precisely as fast as you can after protecting the head if it's been needed.

If nothing's indicated and the seizure lasts more than 5 minutes or if the person is hurt, call the ER immediately.

If the person is alone and doesn't have a medical safety helmet, your priority should always be to protect the head first.

Put a pillow or clothes under their head without holding it. If you don't have anything, put your hand on the ground to limit the damages. Once again, don't hold any part of the body!

Check if nothing's making the person suffocate and secure the space around them.

If the person isn't alone and you're told the person is known for having seizures and you don't have anything to do except wait, don't do anything.

Personally, I'm stressed when someone stays because I hear noises even if I can't understand or identify the sounds, but it depends on everyone.

Don't panic and don't let people come close.

75% reached, thank you everyone 🎉

Hey friends,

Please I'm begging you, help us reach 75% of the goal tonight, if that's possible. We hoped to reach it last weekend but didn't yet.

Receiving at least one donation today would be great please, as time is passing by and we're not reaching the daily amount needed to be on time. It's too hard to handle without news from my disability benefits renewal.

Any amount helps, but please don't donate if you can't or don't want to. Thank you so much for everything!

https://www.paypal.me/VirgileMougin

Received a really huge donation this morning. If you're reading this, I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart.

The amount is enormous. My phone fell when I saw it lol, couldn't believe it.

Your generosity has helped reaching 60% and get way closer to 75% of the goal.

We can maybe make it in time. Thanks for giving us hope!

Love y'all, thanks for your help with boost and donations. You're saving us, we'd be homeless without you!

In order to pay for the inheritance fees in time, we'd have to raise 150€ daily for the next two weeks.

It seems absolutely impossible, but I have no other option. I'm hoping for a miracle...

Any euro gets us closer to the goal. Don't donate if you can't afford it, please, stay safe first!

https://www.paypal.me/VirgileMougin

Thank you for any help!

@mutualaid
#MutualAid #DisabledCrowdfund

Hey everyone,

I hope you're doing well.
We haven't received any donation in four days and we still don't know how we'll get out of this mess.

I'm still really sick. March is coming soon and we have no money for our survival and no news yet for my disability benefits renewal...

Please help us if you can, even a single boost can help a lot. Thank you so much, friends!

https://www.paypal.me/VirgileMougin

Gonna publish one post about it.

I will make it really short without details and won't mention how things went after that, but please don't read it if you are really sensitive or triggered by any of the TWs.

Please, take care of yourselves first. I don't wanna ruin your day or trigger anyone...

23 years ago, on this day, my whole life's changed, with my oldest and darkest trauma.

I'm not sure I've talked about it on Fedi yet, maybe on one of my previous accounts. But I wrote about it all a few times back on the birdsite and will do it again here. If I do, be careful with the TW because that's extremely triggering for people when I talk about it.

Feeling awful. One of the two worst days in the year for me

Thank you so much for the kindness, I read my mentions but can't answer now. I will do it tonight.

I'm so grateful for your support. :blobcatheart:

If you want to help me make this day a bit less worse, you can boost and/or donate (if you can and want to, don't feel obligated please) on my crowdfunding post.

Thanks again for everything, love y'all so much. Have a good day, friends!

Can't stop crying and have traumatic flashback, I hate this anniversary so much. And it's on a famous day, so that makes it even worse to handle because almost everyone talks about it.

Gonna go listen to music, hopefully that'll be helpful and I'll be able to sleep, at last. It's already 6am here and I'm exhausted and hopeless with everything right now...

23 years ago, my "father" attempted an infanticide on young me (I wasn't even 3 yet, but I still have some memories unfortunately) and a feminicide on my mum, before doing the same thing to himself.

I wasn't supposed to survive, it was a "miracle", they all said. Then I was supposed to lose my hand but didn't thanks to a successful surgery, but I lost everything on that day and it's been a weight ever since.

My whole life became hell.

I still don't have news for my disability benefits renewal so we're without income, living with our three pets.

We'll have to ask for help to survive in March as well, I'm so sorry for all this... Please help us live, we just can't stay in survival mode all the time it's unbearable, especially with everything we have to deal with.

If we could erase that debt, that would drastically change our life. Please, help us with even 1€ or a boost if you can/want to! 🙏🏻

#DisabledCrowdfund #MutualAid

Hey everyone,

We've reached 40% of the goal a few days ago but ~3000€ are still left to be raised.

I'm extremely sick, can't get out of bed, and the stress of all this is too much to handle.

I've been able to gain more time, I have until the very beginning of March to raise the money.

Please I'm begging you, help us if you can and want to, I'm really desperate... Thank you!

https://www.paypal.me/VirgileMougin

@mutualaid

Trying something, who knows?

If anyone is rich, feels really generous today and has 472€ to spend, please my PayPal is in my previous post and pinned /hj

That would allow us to raise half of the money needed and would be such a relief already.

More seriously, any amount is welcome and would be a huge help already. Thanks for everything, please stay safe in priority!

@skippingmoonrocks This is really important. Thanks for spreading awareness!

As someone dealing with hallucinations and C-PTSD, meditation made me feel trapped in my trauma.

I don't know why but I've tried again a few times. I thought maybe I wasn't in the good mindset. It got worse.

If it makes you feel bad, please don't force it. It can seem like nothing harmful, but it really can be!