Notices by 1ngi (1ngi@sunbeam.city)

@goatsarah As another suspected ADHDer I found this fascinating. I know I like to chat for connection too, sharing mutual experiences, demonstrating where we relate, like a dance of shared personal info that makes you feel closer to each other. Which again doesn't fit in with your NT examples. Also *hugs* and I have spent some happy times in your company listening to you.

@goatsarah I know you’re from Derbyshire but does this make you a Yorkist?

I came down w shingles this weekend. (55) if you can afford it, get yourself the stupidly expensive vaccine. (Free after 65+ or immune compromised). It’s one of the most painful things I’ve experienced and I should know ( I have Trigeminal Neuralgia).

So my dad was basically removed from his cancerous kidney - it was that big! 22cm in diameter and weighed 5 fucking kilos. He had a v scary week post surgery but he's at last rallying and it finally feels like the sun is coming out. Thank you for all your lovely kind wishes.